A Switch

Something has happened, something has changed with the babe. Over the past few weeks there has been a shift. He has moved from being the observer, watching life patiently and attentively as it happened to him, to being a participant, making decisions and choices (sometimes very very tiny) about his world and what happens in it.

He decides what he wants to play with and get it himself. He flits from thing to thing, spending no more than a few minutes with each, but he is in control. He makes the choices. He has the power.

Plotting the Attack

When he wants cuddles, he crawls over to get them. It isn’t just me initiating anymore, he initiates too. It is reciprocal and warms my heart to know that he wants it just as much as I do.

Delicious, Delicious Shoe

When we are funny, he laughs. Wholehearted belly laughs that make us laugh too. When we are not so funny, or we’re trying to hard, he fake laughs. The fake laugh is almost as funny as the real one.

Action

He makes choices about food. When dinner is put on the table before him he always eats his favorites first. Banana is king.

Myself

And there are smooches. Given freely. Loud, slobbery, tongue filled smooches. Sometimes on the cheek, usually on the chin, and occasionally on the lips. I know it won’t last forever, so I’ll take it now, all of it.

Sorting Laundry

It’s a nice shift, it’s a good change, it’s one that reminds me of the zest for life that he has, that I aspire to. It reminds me to keep things simple. Find the joy in life, everyday. Even if it is just banging a metal lid with a maraca. There is joy.

And on that note, I wish everyone a joy-filled new year, especially my little man on his very first new year’s. I hope that as we reflect on the past year and make plans for the upcoming one, we remember to keep it simple and keep it joyful. I’ll be back tomorrow with some of the plans I have for the next year. It is going to be a good one.

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One Small Change

One Small Change

A while back, I believe it was through Shivaya Naturals, I heard about a new challenge going on for this new year. It’s called One Small Change. The basic premise of the project is that each month, between now and Earth Day, participants choose one small change they’d like to make in order to be more green.

This is actually a difficult one for me. I already feel that we do so many things. Looking through the list of ideas on the site made that even more obvious.

Recycle (do it), use cloth napkins (yup), try cloth diapering (already there), replace your bulbs with LED or CFL bulbs (one to go), turn off your lights (pretty good about this), use natural cleaning products or make your own (done and done), drive your car less (don’t on a vehicle), buy a hybrid, turn your thermostat down (don’t control our heat), use the sun to warm your home through passive solar heat, bring your own bags to the store (usually, although we frequently reuse the paper sacks for things like wrapping), install a low flow shower head, stop buying bottled water (never started), unplug it (could be better), bring more plants into your home (current count – 0), always print double sided (hubby brings home scrap from work), when getting rid of things consider freecycle, craigslist or ebay (do not throw out as someone else is surely able to get some use out of it), support local farms and try to eat local (meat csa members, eagerly anticipating spring csa season), purchase wind power if it is available in your area, purchase products made with natural materials and that can be reused, purchase recycled paper products, use rags instead of paper towels to clean up messes (got that), use reusable lunch sacks, buy organic (already do), landscape responsibly by reducing the use of water needed (landscaping, what landscaping), donate time and/or money to green efforts, elimate the use of toilet paper by using family cloths (hmmmm….), don’t flush every time (already do, or is it don’t), put a brick or something heavy it he back of your toilet so it uses less water when flushed (our toilet has no tank).

As you can see from my annotations, there are already so many things we do. So many efforts we make to reduce our footprint on this precious earth of ours. So many ways that we go above and beyond, not even because we necessarily think about it, but because it is the way we are.

That being said, there is more to do. There is more that can be done. There is more that will be done.

For starters, this year I would like to reduce the number of disposable plastic ziploc-style bags that we use, and pitch, around here. During the month of January I would like to make a few reusable, washable, bags to use for lunches and snacks (maybe like this or this). Additionally, I would like to make a bigger effort to wash (hate doing this) the plastic bags that we do use.

It is a small change, but that’s the point isn’t it? I’ll let you know how it goes.

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Want Need Wear Read

A few months before Christmas I happened upon this post. Ever since, I’ve been excited about Christmas in our house and excited by the way that this simple guideline would help us keep the holiday simple and meaningful.

Gift giving has always been the most stressful part of the holiday for me. Now, don’t get me wrong, I love giving, I love making, but it has never been that simple. I have always found myself filled with doubt. Will they like it? Is it enough?

It’s the second part that really bothers me. The way the culture of gift giving seems to have changed. Instead of being about generosity, selflessly giving, without expectation, it seems that it is more about measuring up. And, in many ways I never have.

Well, now with the babe celebrating his first Christmas, I didn’t want to perpetuate that cycle in him and in our home. So, we decided to give the want.need.wear.read a try.

Fabric Letters

Something he wants – A plush alphabet for him to chew on.

Green Potty

Something he needs – A little green potty ready when he is.

Handspun Raglan

Buttonband

Something to wear – A sweater of my own designing, knit with handspun.

Ewan's Family Book

I See Papa

Whole Family

Something to read – A mama-made book, a la Brown Bear, with all of his family members.

I did the same four categories with Aaron, and for both of them it seemed to be a hit. For me, it made everything so simple. Just what I was looking for. The best thing about it all, it made answering the question, is it enough, so easy. Yes. There is a want, need, wear and read. It is enough.

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It’s Going to be White

Christmas, that is.

Ornaments

And I am so, beyond, excited.

Snowy Steps

After two Christmases away, neither of them white, I feel like I’m a kid again.

Festive

Walking along, filled with wonderment, watching the flakes fall from the sky.

Surprise Decor

Indeed, it is going to be a wonderful white Christmas.

Street Lights, Adorned

We are mere hours away from the first of our Christmas guests arrival. And there is so very much left to do. A kitchen to clean, a few last gifts to finish, wrapping, and food to make.

I’ll be back here after the holidays with tales to share, gifts to reveal, and a new year to plan for.

While I am a little sad that this years holiday won’t involve any KFC, I’m sure it will be wonderful. I hope yours will too.

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