Just a few days ago I happened upon a post over at blog that I frequent, Shivaya Naturals. She was having a rough day, in need of reconnecting with her little ones, and took a moment to share something she found and, then, encouraged others to do the same. What resulted was over 85 comments FILLED with inspiration, ideas, ways to connect, relax, love.
I was having a bit of a rough patch myself. Our little guy is recovering from his third consecutive illness (bronchiolitis, stomach bug, ear infection), my husband is working overtime (has been for several weeks and will be for several more), and I’ve just been feeling a little overwhelmed. A little busy. A little disconnected. A little in-between.
Seeing the image that she posted, inspired me as well. I sat down with a notebook page, a pen, and a five-minute timer. And, as I had done with my students so many times, I did a quick write a la Donald Graves. A five-minute, on-topic, brain dump. And this was my result:

Then I thought about it, I thought about how my list made me feel, and how the lists of all those in the comments made me feel and I couldn’t help but wonder, imagine how fun it would be to see them all, together. And this is what I came up with.
How to Really Love a Child
(download the .pdf and hang it somewhere in your home, just like I intend to)
I started with the list in the image, continued with all the beautiful ideas in the comments, added a few of my own, and highlighted some of the words which, right now, touch me the most. Sing. Dance. Laugh. Together.
And that’s what I plan to do. Today.