Making Lemonade

It’s Memorial Day weekend and I had big plans (hopes) for all the fun adventures we’d have on this, the unofficial, kick-off to summer.

Well, it’s been rainy. And cold. Two days of the weekend have gone by, spent mostly indoors. And, I’ll be honest, I’m a bit sulky.

This afternoon the storms passed and we went out for a walk.

Honestly, I think Ewan prefers the walks that are punctuated by lots of puddle jumping. Xander remains indifferent.

If only I could feel the same.

Lucky for us we have one bonus weekend day tomorrow. It looks as though it’ll be hot! and sunny. I’ll try not to complain about the hot.

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The New Wrap

A new babe meant new addition to the babywearing stash. This time, all handmade additions.

With Ewan, we never had a wrap. And after seeing so many of them walking around town, I decided we needed one in our stash.

Ours is a nice, light cotton gauze which will be perfect as the temperature warms.

I embroidered the front to make it all a little more special. And it is.

The wrap is the coziest, most secure carrier we have at the moment for this little wee one. I’m so glad to have added it to the collection.

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Preparing for Babe – A Sling of Their Own

We are avid babywearers around here. Still finding ourselves, from time-to-time, wearing Ewan. For vacuuming. For a little closeness when the stress of the day is too much. For calming down before naps. We have many carriers, which I’ve talked about before, but it seemed that this new one deserved a new, special carrier (or two or three) of their own.

First on the list was a ring sling. You see, Ewan is rather attached to his. We still use it with him on a daily basis and he often snuggles with it during his naps. I knew this would be one thing that I couldn’t ask him to share. The sling is his.

We thought for awhile about buying another Maya Wrap Ring Sling. It’s been a fave and it’s worked well for us, but given my recent surge of making (and the near $70 price tag for a duplicate sling) I decided, instead, to set off and make my own.

For the most part I like the design of the Maya Wrap, but knew that if I was going to make my own I wanted to modify a few things.

I wanted a larger padded shoulder that would fit my shoulder better and provide a little more support.

Done!

I wanted a wider sling width than the standard 34 inches in the Maya Wrap to provide more support and help with discreet nursing.

Done! Mine is about 38 inches.

I wanted pretty, symmetrical pleats. A detail that only someone as anal as me would find important.

Done!

I wanted the pocket, for keys and other small essentials, but I wanted it in a cute print.

Done!

And, I wanted it before the baby came. Fabric was ordered a week ago today. It was delivered on Monday. The sling was finished yesterday and, despite being 39 weeks!!!, the babe still isn’t here.

Done!

But now, seriously, you can come little one. Your diapers are washed and ready, your clothes are too, your family is eager to meet you, and now you have a sling all your own. Today would work for me…

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Preparing for Babe – Preparing Ewan

It is hard to prepare a little one, just shy of two, for the arrival of a sibling. I think the whole thing is so far beyond their comprehension, beyond their ability to truly grasp, that the whole idea of preparing them seems daunting and beyond reach.

That being said, we are trying to do a few things to help our little guy get used to the idea. To help ease the transition.

And, as with all things in life around here, my answer seems to involve making something.

A little sling for little Ewan. In preparation for all the babywearing that will, surely, be going on around here once this little one comes, I thought Ewan could use a sling of his own.

He loves it. He carries around his koala, which he calls “toe-wala,” and shouts “OH NO!” each time that the little stuffed one falls out as he’s going about his busy toddler business.

The sling he’s sporting now is made out of a simple muslin. I had intended that just to be my mock-up, to check sizing and make sure my design worked, but he’s come to like it and grow so attached already that I’m not sure it is worth the time/effort to try to make one that is a little more special. We will see.

And, I should show you how I made this one, one of these days. If I forget over the next few weeks, remind me, ok?!

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My Seven

Welcome to the May Carnival of Natural Parenting: Role model

This post was written for inclusion in the monthly Carnival of Natural Parenting hosted by Code Name: Mama and Hobo Mama. This month our participants have waxed poetic about how their parenting has inspired others, or how others have inspired them. Please read to the end to find a list of links to the other carnival participants.

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The carnival topic this month is a tough one for me. Because, when it comes to parenting, I’m not sure that I’ve inspired anyone. If I have, I don’t now, nor may I ever know.

As nice as it would be, it isn’t everyday that someone walks up and says, “Wow! You really inspire me.” But, maybe it should. Maybe we should let people know that they inspire us. Maybe we should toot their horns and give credit where credit is due. Now that I think about it, yes, we should.

With that in mind, I’d like to take a moment to share a few of the people that have inspired me on my parenting journey. The people that have helped me to become the natural parenting mama that I am today.

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